I preached this as a sermon a little over a month ago. True story. It may sound like I went all self-help and felt-needs, but I think if you give John 11:1-16 a read and listen to the sermon that it holds up.

So here's a summary for those facing illness. These things can be helpful for major illness, minor, Covid-19, or something else. For the full take and context you can listen to the sermon here. Or look here for the message on John 11:1-16.

From the sickness and death of Lazarus: 7 things to do when you or a loved one is sick.

1. Go straight to Jesus. I'm NOT saying don't go to the doctor or don't go get tested or don't take medicine. Do those things. I AM saying go to Jesus! Mary and Martha send straight away for their friend Jesus (John 11:3) who they believe can heal their brother (John 11:21,32). Is it your instinct to go to the One you know loves you and is able to help you? His response may not be what you want (it wasn't the response Mary and Martha wanted!), but it will always be what is good for you. Go to him!
2. Don't be surprised. Jesus loved Lazarus (John 11:3,5). Lazarus was a friend of Jesus (John 11:11). It seems Jesus had a close relationship with this family. And yet Lazarus got sick and died. If he got sick, anyone can. If you believe a close relationship with the Savior exempts you from suffering, that will crush you when you're sick, not help you! You can take the health, wealth, and prosperity non-gospel and flush it.
3. Rejoice. Jesus was glad (rejoiced) that he wasn't there to heal Lazarus before he died (John 11:14-15). What he’s going to do for Lazarus is going to be even more faith-building than if he had been there to heal him. You might say that it's easy for Jesus who knows what's coming and harder for us because we don't know what's coming. True enough, but we do know Jesus who has what's coming in his hands.  And in some ways, we do know what's coming. See #7 below. (This is in no way a denial of the rightness of mourning in the midst of suffering...see Mary, Martha, and Jesus in the subsequent verses.)
4. Ask how it might glorify God. Jesus knew the resurrection of Lazarus would glorify God (John 11:4). We won't always know exactly how our sickness or the sickness of a loved one will bring glory to God, but let's be looking for how. He might get glory through a miraculous healing. Glory might come to him through his long-enduring, never-failing grace on display through a long trial. Because of his grace, your patient, faith-filled, enduring response to sickness might honor him as you encourage others around you. Your sickness and response might even be used to draw a lost person to Christ.
5. Ask how it might strengthen the faith of others. Jesus did what he did so his disciples (and others) might believe (John 11:14-15). He wants their faith to grow through the suffering of Lazarus and his response to it. Do you ever look for how your suffering might strengthen the faith of others? We are really good at loving and looking out for ourselves, especially when we're sick. But the glory of God (see # 4 above) and the good of our neighbor should drive our behavior. Your response to suffering might be just the faith-bolstering thing your brothers and sisters in Christ need.
6. Rest in Jesus' wisdom. Carefully read John 11:5-6. Did you catch that? He loved Martha, her sister, and Lazarus SO, THEREFORE, when he heard Lazarus was sick he stayed where he was two more days. He loved them, so he DID NOT come right away and heal him. And in our human wisdom, we say, "What?! That makes ZERO sense." And that is why we must rest in the wisdom of Jesus, not our own. Our wisdom calls for immediate relief. Jesus in his wisdom may delay. It may not make sense to you, but Jesus might delay BECAUSE he loves you. Surely it didn’t make sense to his disciples in that moment. But there’s something coming that will be glorious. God will be honored. These saints will be strengthened in their faith. Others will come to faith (John 11:45). There’s going to be a testimony for all time (still today!) of the power of the Savior, that he is the resurrection and the life. Jesus’ delay was an expression of love even though they couldn’t see it right then. Rest in his wisdom. Jesus loves you, therefore, so he’s doing this in your life.
7. Remember that Jesus is the resurrection and the life. Everything we've said above means nothing if Jesus is not the resurrection and the life. It means nothing if Jesus himself didn’t rise from the dead. But he is the resurrection and the life (John 11:25) and he did rise from the dead (John 20:1-10). The resurrection of Lazarus from the dead (John 11:38-44) and Jesus' own resurrection demonstrated his power over the grave. That means there is sense to be made of our suffering. Even if our suffering ends in death (and eventually it will), our story doesn't end. It’s just beginning, and we will live forever with him (John 11:25-26). We have hope in our suffering because of Jesus, the resurrection and the life. If he’s in the grave, this post is complete garbage; there’s no good in our suffering. But in fact, Christ has been raised from the dead and that means we will be too.

Earlier today I posted on facebook and tweeted this: "Let's give grace today, friends." I want to unpack that a bit.

1. What do I mean by giving grace?
   1. I mean being kind to, patient with, forgiving of, and assuming the best of those all around us. I mean demonstrating what Colossians 3:12-14 talks about. "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." (Or see Ephesians 4:1-3.)
   2. But they don't deserve it! That's why it's called grace.
2. Why give grace?
   1. We have been shown grace upon grace. We who have been forgiven much should be quick to forgive those who wrong us.
   2. And often, we've not actually been wronged. We just perceive we've been wronged because we've assumed the worst of someone. So: 1 Corinthians 13:7 "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." If we're hoping all things, we'll be much more likely to not take offense and to give grace.
   3. It is the giving of grace that promotes unity and not division. Both the Colossians and Ephesians passages above make this point. And could we ever use some unity today.
3. To whom should we show grace? Here are 10 suggestions flowing out of our experiences recently. There are others, of course. But I hope these will move us to think of our daily interactions and whether they are grace-giving. I'll tuck a reason or two in parentheses why we might hope the best regarding them and so give them grace.
   1. Give grace to that person at the store who's not wearing a mask. (Maybe they have a condition which makes a mask inadvisable or dangerous.)
   2. Give grace to your children who are getting on your very last nerve. (They're kids. And these days are hard for them too.)
   3. Give grace to the person who seems afraid of you or mad at you because you're not wearing a mask. (Maybe they have a condition which would make contracting Covid-19 especially dangerous for them.)
   4. Give grace to your spouse who didn't quite hit the mark today. (They may have had a hard day at work dealing with lots of new regulations and expectations. It might have been rough time at home with the kids or a husband working from home!)
   5. Give grace to the superintendent of your school district making decisions. (They have been given an impossible set of circumstances. The federal, state, and local guideline are probably conflicting. And there are myriads of parent, faculty, staff, and student opinions on what they should do. Whatever decision they make, someone, is not going to like it.)
   6. Give grace to your governor, mayor, president, US or state senator or representative, etc. (They are under enormous pressure to do what is best for thousands and millions of people and have to do it with incomplete data and conflicting interpretations of that data being fed to them. Like your local school officials, whatever they decide will be met with scorn and criticism from one side or the other or all sides.)
   7. Give grace to your frazzled check out clerk, store worker, server at the restaurant, etc. (They are working under previously unknown guidelines that are hard to remember and implement while still providing the same level of service in an environment that was stressful without a pandemic.)
   8. Give grace to your friends and acquaintances in real life and online who disagree with you. (Again, we're all working with incomplete data with varying interpretations. Someone reaching a different conclusion than you doesn't make them the enemy or evil or malicious.)
   9. Give grace to your pastor whose sermon may not have been quite as scintillating as usual. (He may not have thousands or millions of people to think about, but he is trying to do what's best for your congregation of whatever size, and that's taking extra time and work these days.) 
   10. Give grace to your child's teacher. (They're trying to figure out how to provide the best possible in-person instruction during a pandemic while following the guidelines for their district, planning for the possibility of more remote learning, trying to do a hybrid of in-person and remote learning, all while being concerned for their and their family's health as well.)
4. What are some practical ways to give grace?
   1. Meet the reflex to criticize someone with prayer for them instead. Put yourself in their shoes, hope the best, and pray for them with compassion.
   2. A smile (they can see it in your eyes), goes a long way.
   3. A kind, encouraging word instead of a grumpy complaint.
   4. Disagree with with gentleness and love instead of harshness, smugness, superiority, and condescension.
   5. When you're sinned against, forgive. When you sin against someone, repent and pray for the humility to seek their forgiveness and acknowledge the hurt you caused.
   6. (Gently) remind ME of these things when you see me not giving grace. Again.

Dear GBC Family,

Below is what you need for an at-home time of worship. I pray God will meet with each of us around our time in His Word and bless and encourage us. For now, our plan is to gather for worship in person at the church building next week (May 17) at 10:30am. Please pray for wisdom and help for that!

Thank you so much for your continued generous giving that has come into our new PO Box! Since giving is part of what we do when we gather on the Lord's Day, if you are able to continue financially giving during this time (and we understand if you are not able!), we ask that you mail checks only (no cash) to that P.O. Box:

Grace Baptist Church of Warsaw
P.O. Box 1383
Warsaw, IN  46581-1383

May God bless us all as we seek to honor him on his day!

Order of Service
This first video has some announcements, our call to worship (and OT Scripture reading), and opening prayer to start off today.

Call to Worship/OT Scripture Reading: Psalm 98 - This Psalm calls us to sing to the LORD a new song, for he has done marvelous things (verse 1). Then it lists some of the marvelous things that he has done (verses 1-3). Then it calls creation and all people to praise the LORD (verses 3-8) as we anticipate the Lord coming in judgment (verse 9). The sermon passage in John today speaks of Jesus as judge, and we can worship Him for his just, righteous judgment.
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Hymn: TH 15 - Come, let us sing unto the Lord - instrumental with lyrics; congregational singing -  this is taken from Psalm 98 as we praise God for the great things he has done and for the fact that he will justly judge all on the great day of Jesus' return.

Hymn: GBCH 113 - Before the Throne of God Above - instrumental with lyrics; congregational singing - Jesus is the judge, but he is also the advocate for all whose faith is in Him alone!
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Scripture Memory: Colossians 3:23 “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” (ESV)

Prayer: - Confess sin and rejoice in God's forgiveness; thank God for blessings; pray for our missionaries in Europe (Emadis in Ireland; Baldwins in Serbia; Leightons in Spain); pray that God would help you to receive the Word of God as it is preached; pray for other family needs and needs of others in the church; pray for the various needs related to the pandemic - the sick, those caring for the sick, the unemployed, the decision makers, efforts to slow it to be successful; please pray for our preparations to meet publicly next Sunday for worship.

NT Scripture Reading: Matthew 25:31-46 - the sermon passage in John's Gospel today speaks of Jesus as judge. In this passage from Matthew's Gospel, Jesus tells more about what the day of judgment will look like.

Hymn: TH 241  - Day of judgment, day of wonders - instrumental with lyrics; congregational singing (if you use this link, you'll probably need the lyrics from the 1st link) - this hymn speaks of how that day will be a joy for God's people (verses 2&4) and a terror for God's enemies (verses 1&3).

Preaching: See video below

Prayer and Benediction: Included in the video below

Dear GBC Family,

Below is what you need for an at-home time of worship. I pray God will meet with each of us around our time in His Word and bless and encourage us. I also pray we are longing for the time we can physically meet together again.

Thank you so much for your continued generous giving that has come into our new PO Box! Since giving is part of what we do when we gather on the Lord's Day, if you are able to continue financially giving during this time (and we understand if you are not able!), we ask that you mail checks only (no cash) to that P.O. Box:

Grace Baptist Church of Warsaw
P.O. Box 1383
Warsaw, IN  46581-1383

May God bless us all as we seek to honor him on his day!

Order of Service
Like last week, we have a video with some announcements, our call to worship, and opening prayer to start off today. (I mess up the Psalm reading and didn't notice until later. See if you catch it. Hint: I skip part of it...)

Call to Worship: Psalm 100 - A call for us to worship with singing! God is our God, is good, and his love endures forever. So let's enter his gates with thanksgiving!
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Hymn: GBCH 102 - Come Christians, Join to Sing - instrumental with lyrics; congregational singing - This is an opportunity to lift our voices in praise to sing "Alleluia" which means "Praise the Lord"!!

Hymn: TH 87 - Holy, Holy, Holy - instrumental with lyrics; congregational singing  - The God we worship is triune - One God existing in three persons. In this hymn we praise our triune and holy God.

OT Scripture Reading: Psalm 2 - The sermon passage in John today speaks of the relation between the Father and the Son, but the New Testament is not the only place that speaks of this reality!

Scripture Memory: Colossians 3:23 “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” (ESV)

Prayer: - Confess sin and rejoice in God's forgiveness; thank God for blessings; pray for our missionaries on the far side of the French speaking world (Vaughns & Favres in France; Wengers & Zurchers in Switzerland); pray that God would help you to receive the Word of God as it is preached; pray for other family needs and needs of others in the church; pray for the various needs related to the pandemic - the sick, those caring for the sick, the unemployed, the decision makers, efforts to slow it to be successful.

NT Scripture Reading: John 1:1-14 - in the sermon passage in John's Gospel today Jesus speaks of himself as the divine Son of God. Do you remember in John 1 that John spoke of some of these realities? This scripture reading gives us a refresher.

Hymn: GBCH 106 - There is a Redeemer - instrumental with lyrics; congregational singing (only 2 of the 3 verses) - see if you hear the Trinitarian references in this familiar song.

Preaching: See video below

Prayer and Benediction: Included in the video below

Psalm 121:3-4 "He will not let your foot be moved; he who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep." (ESV)